NOT DRESSING TO THE OCCASION. Never dress provocatively on your first date. No matter the level of understanding of the guy, he may be tempted to believe that you are a whore and never dress like a num for nums are not meant to be outside but rather in the monastry.NOT CONTROLLING HOW YOU EAT AND DRINK. Never drink as if you are working with Heineken Beer Company for definitely even if the man is a drunk, he would never want
to settle down with a fellow drunk. No matter how sweet the meal is, never show him you are a glutton.
to settle down with a fellow drunk. No matter how sweet the meal is, never show him you are a glutton. NEVER SLEEP WITH HIM. Make it a rule never to sleep with any guy on the first date no matter how charming the guy is for he would assume that you always do so with your other dat
es. Diplomatically tell him that it should not come up but later in the course of the relationship.
es. Diplomatically tell him that it should not come up but later in the course of the relationship.NEVER BE SO FORWARD ON WHAT YOU WANT FROM THE RELATIONSHIP. Though t
here is nothing wrong on defining what you need from a relationship but be coming forward on it on the first date will do more harm than good.Statistically, 89 percent of men are afraid of committments. If you tell him that you need to settle down immediately, he will avoid you after the first date for you will lure him into marriage. Take it stage by stage but first enjoy yourself, but never loose touch with reality.
NEVER DISCLOSE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF ON THE FIRST DATE. No matter how sincere and straight forward you may think that you are,never say everything on the first date.Never say all your problems for he will believe that you are nothing but a liability.If you tell him everything on the first date,he will never appreciate you for it.
NEVER SAY ABOUT YOUR EX-GUY. Never say about your ex-guy except when asked and even as that never say much of him for men get jealous at nothing. He may think that you will end up comparing him with your EX. 
here is nothing wrong on defining what you need from a relationship but be coming forward on it on the first date will do more harm than good.Statistically, 89 percent of men are afraid of committments. If you tell him that you need to settle down immediately, he will avoid you after the first date for you will lure him into marriage. Take it stage by stage but first enjoy yourself, but never loose touch with reality.
NEVER DISCLOSE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF ON THE FIRST DATE. No matter how sincere and straight forward you may think that you are,never say everything on the first date.Never say all your problems for he will believe that you are nothing but a liability.If you tell him everything on the first date,he will never appreciate you for it.NEVER DO MOST OF THE TALKING BUT RATHER DO MOST OF LISTENING. If you control
most of the talking, he may erroneosly believe that you are possessive and over bearing. Men are afraid of women who tend to control their afairs.You may not see him again after the first date.Know when to contribute to an issue and when to raise a new issue.Timming is the word.
most of the talking, he may erroneosly believe that you are possessive and over bearing. Men are afraid of women who tend to control their afairs.You may not see him again after the first date.Know when to contribute to an issue and when to raise a new issue.Timming is the word. 
GIVE HIM THE WHOLE ATTENTION. No matter how smartly dressed the guy sitting next to your table is, ignore him. Give your date the whole attention for he may believe that you flirts whereas it is only an admiration of his looks or his attire.
LAUGH AT HIS JOKES. Though some jokes can be dry but laughing at his jokes spurs him into telling good ones.Your laugh will make him feel special and serve as ego booster. Not laughing at his jokes will portray you as being too serious, mean and a person who never brook interference.
NEVER SAY ABOUT YOUR EX-GUY. Never say about your ex-guy except when asked and even as that never say much of him for men get jealous at nothing. He may think that you will end up comparing him with your EX. 
SHOW APPRECIATION. Though your date should show appreciation for your honouring the date but nevertheless, show your appreciation for chosing you as his date and tell him how wonderful the dinner was even if it was not so.Tell him how wonderful he was and how lucky you were.When he gets home, he will tell all his friends about you and your attitude and guess what? He will knock at your door the next day.
